In Memory Of

Kay Marilyn Gray

Nov 21, 1949 - Dec 16, 2025

Service

  Kay's wishes, are not to have a funeral service; a Celebration of Life and burial will be held in the Spring of 2026

Notice

For anyone who would like make a memorial contribution in Kay’s name, they may be made to the ROAR Society, Rocky Mountain House.

Obituary

Kay Marilyn Gray (Martin)

Kay passed away peacefully on December 16, 2025 at the Rocky Mountain House Health Centre.

Kay was born November 21, 1949 in Rimbey, to parents Leah and John Martin, and was the youngest of 6 children, (Betty, Richard, Cassie, Norma and Harry). She grew up around Rimbey and Eckville.

Kay worked at the Ritz Café where she met Bill. She married the love of her life, William “Bill” Gray on December 5, 1970.
After they were married, they lived for a short time at Nordegg because that’s where Bill was working. They eventually settled near Ferrier where they lived near Bill’s parents and brother. Kevin joined their family in 1972 and Wendy followed in 1975.
Kay worked at the SAAN Store, janitorial at Will Sinclair High School, a Dollar Store and many years at JB Crafts and Hobbies where she collected many treasures from over the years!

Bill & Kay built a Camp Shelter on their property in the 1990’s. This Shelter saw many family gatherings, potlucks and weddings over the years. Kay was lovingly known as the Camp Attendant or Warden and would often ride her quad up to check on everyone camped there.
Bill passed away in August 2005 and Kay remained on the home property by herself for 20 more years. Bill’s passing left an enormous void in Kay’s heart and she missed him immensely; in spite of this she was very independent, mowing lawn, splitting firewood and shooting squirrels. She had amazing neighbors who checked in on her, plowed snow from her yard and cut trees down when needed.
Kay greatly enjoyed baking and crafts. She was very well known for her homemade pies, cabbage rolls and knitted slippers. She spent many hours on her scroll saw making Christmas ornaments, painting ceramics, making her famous carrot loaf and playing cards.
Most recently Kay was the happiest just being at home, making plastic canvas creations, crocheting tea towels, eating Caramilk ice cream bars and complaining lovingly about her cat Gomer.

She was a very special lady who always had a smile, something sassy to say and welcomed anyone in for a visit.

Kay will be greatly missed by her children, Kevin (Lori) Gray and Wendy (Tom) Bickford as well as her grandchildren Justin, Kacey, Riley, Kelsey and Emma, and numerous great grandchildren. And will also be dearly missed by the many nieces, nephews, other family members and friends from near and far.

For those who want to make a memorial contribution in Kay’s memory they may be made to the ROAR Society, Rocky Mountain House.

At Kay’s request, there will be no funeral. A Celebration of Life and burial to be held in the spring.

Condolences

Grant & Lori Allen:

Kay was a lovely lady. I remember the fun we had in our community ladies club. Sharing recipes, crafts and stories. She will be missed by many. Rest in peace, Kay.

Brad & Shirley Marshall:

Kevin, Wendy & family,

Our sincere condolences to all of Kay's family. We cherish the memories of camping, quadding and playing cards. May Kay rest in peace.

Elaine and Don Zimmer:

Wishing you peace in this sad time. You wrote a wonderful tribute to your Mom. She was an unforgettable character. We are some of those people who remember being at the campsite for the reunions. We have fond memories of the place and the fellowship with family.

Kandis Stradecki:

Kevin and Wendy (and families),
Sorry to hear of your mom's passing. Condolences to you. That's gonna be one heck of a reunion on the other side! I hope you find solace in remembering how much she loved all of you.

Dawn & Donn Mason / Meryl & Ernest Campbell:

Thinking of you all at this especially difficult time........ hold all the wonderful memories close as you face the days ahead...she will be missed by many

Jane Muyres:

Tom and Wendy: We are very sorry for the loss of your mother/in law. This will always leave a void in your life but we hope that over time your beautiful memories of her will be of comfort and eventually, joy. Cherish those memories and hold them close to your hearts. Thinking of you during this difficult time, Kirby and Jane

Loretta Bailey :

Condolences to Tom and family

Flora scott:

So sorry to hear of Kay’s passing!!! Her sweet smile and bubbly personality will be greatly missed!! Condolences and big hugs to all her family!!!❤️❤️

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