In Memory Of

Darlene Selma McIntosh

Oct 26, 1958 - Feb 22, 2023

Service

Monday, March 6, 2023
1:00 pm
A Celebration of Life for Darlene will be held at the Evergreen Community Hall on Monday, March 6 at 1:00 pm.

Notice

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Darlene’s name may be made to the Central Alberta Cancer Centre.

Obituary

Darlene Selma McIntosh
Oct 26, 1958 - Feb 22, 2023

It is with deep sorrow and much love that we announce the passing of Darlene McIntosh on February 22, 2023, at the age of 64. She was born to Marguerite and Holmfrid Holmgren on October 26, 1958, in Eckville, Alberta. Darlene and her twin brother Daryl were the youngest of 7 children. She went to school in Condor, Alberta and graduated from David Thompson High School in 1976.

She met Don McIntosh in her teens, and they quickly fell in love. After a few years of being together, she married her sweetheart on October 30, 1976, in Eckville, Alberta where they lived at the time. Their first child, Melisa was born in May of 1978. A year later they moved to the family farm in Evergreen which is where Darlene lived until her passing. Their second child Kevin was born in February of 1981 which completed their family.

She dedicated her heart and soul to raising her children, which to her was one of her most significant accomplishments. She was a very patient and tender mother who took the time to listen and educate her children. She was a hands-on mom, baking birthday cakes, sewing clothing, attending, and helping at sporting events, and volunteering and advocating for her children in their schools. She was always her children’s number one cheerleader and biggest fan.

Darlene was also very involved in her community, sitting on the Evergreen Hall Board as treasurer for 30 years, as well as the Bingo treasurer for 35 years. You would find her at the Bingo Hall Wednesday nights surrounded by family and friends playing for the big jackpot every week. Once both kids were in school, Darlene joined a bowling league in Rocky Mountain House. She bowled every Wednesday morning with her team the Country Bumpkins. She worked at the Leslieville Old Time Grocery and post office from 1992-1998.

Darlene and Don started an oilfield maintenance company in 2005 called Dardon Oilfield Services Ltd. Much of Darlene’s time was spent managing the office of the company, doing the bookkeeping, payroll, and safety.

Family was a priority for Darlene. She loved to attend events and reunions with family to re-connect and share stories. Some of her favorite memories were catching up with her siblings at their annual campout in June. Darlene enjoyed spending time around a campfire. You would often find her telling stories, singing and dancing along to her favorite music, or cuddling her grandsons around that fire. Darlene was an avid reader, sometimes polishing off a book over a weekend. She enjoyed her quiet time in the bath with a good James Patterson novel. She also enjoyed her visits with her father-in-law or close friends over a cup of Earl gray tea at the kitchen table.

Traveling together was an interest that Darlene and Don shared as they rode around in their motorhome down to several states south of the border. They also enjoyed spending time at their favorite tropical locations with friends and family.

Darlene was there for the births of both of her grandsons. It would be an understatement to just say that she loved to spend time with them, it was definitely one of her most favorite things. Her patience, playfulness and nurturing nature made the bonds with her grandsons stronger than ever and helped mold them into who they are today. Just as she did with her children, Darlene consistently showed up for her grandson’s activities. Whether it was swimming, hockey or soccer games, or dirt bike races, she was there showing her support.

Darlene’s legacy is evident in the impact she has had on the lives of everyone who knew her.
Darlene was predeceased by her parents Marguerite and Holmfrid; her parents-in-law William and Ingrid.
She is survived by her husband of 46 years, Don, daughter Melisa and partner Renee, her son Kevin and partner Natasha; and 2 grandchildren Titan and Liam. She will be lovingly remembered by her 6 siblings Don, Sharron, Rosemarie, Terry, Barry and Daryl and their families; as well as 3 brothers-in-law Ron, Tom and Tony and 2 sisters-in-law Candace and Marilyn and their families.

A Celebration of Life for Darlene will be held at the Evergreen Community Hall on Monday, March 6 at 1:00 pm.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Darlene’s name may be made to the Central Alberta Cancer Centre.

Cremation entrusted to the Rocky Mountain Crematorium, Rocky Mountain House, Alberta.
Rocky and Sylvan Lake Funeral Homes and Crematorium, your Golden Rule Funeral Homes, entrusted with the arrangements, 403 845 2626

Condolences

Roy & Suzy Harder:

Although our friendship was new, it was full of great times. Our deepest condolences to Don, Mel, Kevin & family? we are so sorry for the loss of your wife, mom, grandmother! Darlene?s presence will be greatly missed by many who knew her, especially at the campfire in her Comfy hoodie.

Gary & Ada Linneberg:

We were sorry to her of your loss, but we can only be thankful that her pain in gone.
God has received another angel.
Our prayers are with the family at this time.

Rene and Joanne Coley and family:

Our thoughts and prayers are with the McIntosh and Holmgren families at this time of sorrow. We send our love and know that Darlene is now in the loving arms of our father. God bless her and keep her for eternity

Dennise Morgan :

My condolences to you all.

Wanda Frillman:

Darlene and Don helped shape the Evergreen Community . Darlene made new comers comfortable and valued . Because of her guidance and gentle soul , she will forever be a light for her Family to follow . God Bless to all Family members .

Leigh and Jennifer Solland:

Our deepest sympathies. I knew Darlene her whole life, and she made the world better.

Kathy Paisley:

Don, Melisa, Kevin, Titan and Liam,

I was saddened when I heard of Darlene?s passing from Karen a few days ago. I have very special memories of Darlene while we were younger as well as the odd time I saw you when camping with the family. I hope the loving memories you all have of Darlene will help to ease you through this time of finding your ?new normal?.

Much love to you all.

Arlene Hurt:

Don, Melissa,Kevin and boys... Heaven has another Angel. My heart goes out to you all.

Stan and Doreen Linneberg:

We were so sad to hear about Darlene from brother Don, we send our love and condolences to all the family.
Sadly we will be away on March 6, but your family will be in our thoughts.

Gaby Zuniga:

My heart goes out to you all. I know how much Darlene meant to all of us. May your happy memories give you peace and comfort during this challenging time. Thinking of you all as you celebrate the life of your beloved Darlene.

Sherri & Myles Holmgren:

Our deepest sympathies for the loss your family is enduring.

Heather Clark:

Sorry for your loss Don and your family.

Laura Fogden:

Don, Melisa, Kevin and Family,
My love is with you all as you adjust to life without Darlene, your loss is enormous. Her kindness, grace and gentle ways have been a constant and powerful influence on your lives and mine. She shall be deeply missed.

Ken Josie Frid:

So sorry for the family?s loss she always had a smile on her face

Cathy McQuiston:

My condolences to Don and family. I really enjoyed Darlene's company while bowling and our lunches in Rocky. The world's lost a real sweetheart.

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